It’s 2019 and for years I’ve been so afraid of making my story public on social media or to anyone that doesn’t know me personally. However, I’m finally at a place in my life where i love who I am and how far i have come. I’m intersex and being intersex has given me a life much more difficult but in many more ways wonderful then I thought it would. I’ve finally come to a place of peace and true happiness in myself. I’m sorry to anyone that I’ve upset from this, I wish I could have been open from the start, but no one (unless you’re intersex / trans) could truly understand what it’s like to live a day in our lives. I really hope that anyone I may have offended/ hurt finds it in their hearts to forgive me, this has been one of the hardest things to overcome personally. Anyway, it now out there, unfollow me if you wish or you can keep up with my crazy wonderful journey of being a proud intersex woman. I love you all! 💕
As a intersex woman, finding or getting into a relationship is a little hard at times. There are 4 types of guys I always come across.
1. The guy that just wants to experiment and find out what he wants, but in the meantime not really taking your feelings into consideration.
2. The guy that wants you to be a secret or a down low relationship, and this guy is typically married or has a girlfriend.
3. The guy that views it as a fetish or thinks of you as a toy.
4. Last but not least, the good guy. Now this guy is out there, but sometimes you can’t see him even if he is right in front of you.
You’ve been though all the other guys so now you just believe all guys are the same. Or you have a really specific type. That is all good, but nobody is perfect and you are probably never going to find the right guy that has 100% of everything you want and need. If you do find that guy he is either pretending or hiding something.
But… if you do find the ultimate guy of your dreams, good for you girl! And like can you help a sister out here?
I think everyone goes through challenges when getting or finding that person to connect with no matter the gender, race and so on. Just at the end of the day, don’t sacrifice parts of yourself to get the guy, or try to make someone like you. Because we are all perfect as we are no matter what.