Winter time

My second favorite season would have to be winter. Why, you may ask?   Well, I love how the snow sparkles and clings to the trees making it look like a Winter Wonderland outside my window each morning. Winter for me is about fresh starts and making memories with the ones you love. Building snowmen, skiing, and sledding,! But most of all time spent with friends and family. Getting cozy up by fire with some oh so good hot cocoa and putting up the Christmas decorations while music plays in the background. Baking delicious treats all month long. Winter! It brings families together far and wide while Time stands still. One of my favorite things is to put on cozy sweaters and dance in the snow all season long. I wish you all a wonderful Christmas, Happy Holidays, and a great New Year! ~ Gean

A Bright Autumn morning

“Every leaf speaks bliss to me, fluttering from the autumntree.” “Notice that autumn is more the season of the soul than of nature.” “I’m so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers.” “I hope I can be the autumn leaf, who looked at the sky and lived.

Finding the right ones

As a intersex woman, finding or getting into a relationship is a little hard at times. There are 4 types of guys I always come across. 
1.   The guy that just wants to experiment and find out what he wants, but in the meantime not really taking your feelings into consideration.
2.   The guy that wants you to be a secret or a down low relationship, and this guy is typically married or has a girlfriend. 
3.   The guy that views it as a fetish or thinks of you as a toy.
4.   Last but not least, the good guy. Now this guy is out there, but sometimes you can’t see him even if he is right in front of you.   
You’ve been though all the other guys so now you just believe all guys are the same. Or you have a really specific type.  That is all good, but nobody is perfect and you are probably never going to find the right guy that has 100% of everything you want and need. If you do find that guy he is either pretending or hiding something.
But… if you do find the ultimate guy of your dreams, good for you girl!  And like can you help a sister out here?  
I think everyone goes through challenges when getting or finding that person to connect with no matter the gender, race and so on.  Just at the end of the day, don’t sacrifice parts of yourself to get the guy, or try to make someone like you.   Because we are all perfect as we are no matter what.